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Sexy Quote of the Week

hot-food

Great food is like great sex

the more you have

the more you want.

Gael Greene

Note from Cassie:

Good Food and good Sex what more can a girl ask for …mmmhm! ;0)

 

Thank you!

Just a quick post to say
lips kiss24to the lovely H for my gorgeous roses.

 

Sexy Quote of the Day

On my old blog I regularly posted a sexy quote or phrase that had caught my eye and I am resurrecting that today. So here goes:

Sex without love is an empty experience,
but as empty experiences go,
it’s one of the best.

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Men prefer curvy girls?

I was listening to my local radio station this afternoon and when the lady presenter announced there would be a piece about skinny versus curvy girls coming up I decided to stay tuned in. As a professional tart and woman of more ample proportions I am always interested in finding out what is popular with the male half of the species.

So I listened on, endured ‘Copacabana’, was singing along to ‘Man who can’t be moved ‘, bopping around to ‘Please don’t leave me’ (Pink rules!) and came back down to earth with ‘Take a bow’ (which I actually do like too, just not a song you jump around to) – you can tell I like this station for its complete randomness of tunes.

Finally after some ads, the awaited segment revealing a street poll, where men were stopped in the high street of a major city, were shown a number of pictures of different women and asked to say which one appealed most to them. The presenter announced that skinny girls were not the most popular, but – she continued triumphantly – it was the curvy ‘SIZE 12’ lady men chose!

Size 12 model

Size 12 model

Well, if a size 12 is a curvy lady what am I at a generous size 18/20? In the BBW world I am considered to be small and as far as I know even when it comes to retail sizes Large starts at size 16. Maybe my understanding of curvy is wrong.This needed more investigation! So I started researching on the internet and came across remarks such as:

No man likes weight on the stomach or waist – they like it on the butt and breasts. Curvy means just that – not rolly, not wide, not pudgy. Curvy like an hourglass. The other thing I’m sure men like is no cellulite, no rolls in weird places, and loose soft jiggly places.

I think curves are much better than skinny. For one when you cuddle you actually have something and infact ‘someone’ to cuddle into rather than missing all the time. I really think it adds shape to the person… I know all girls want to be pretty and skinny but I much prefer curvy anyday…

My experience is that men like a woman that is confident and funny. As long as you are healthy,despite your weight and have those attributes you will be attractive.

I cannot answer for all men, but I like chubby women simply because I generally find them more beautiful. It has nothing to do with being nice, mean, stuck up, whatever–and honestly, there are many skinny girls who are perfectly nice and plently of fat girls who absolutely bearish.

size 20 model

size 20 model

These are only a few excerpts and I have to say Ihad more difficulty finding actual pro ‘fat girl’ statements , most positive posts seemed to say that character, confidence and general attitude were more important than size, which to me is a bit of a cop out. Also health was mentioned, some said being big meant being healthy other said it showed that the woman didn’t care about herself. The fact that conformism made many men hide their penchant for the more ample woman, but secretly hanker after a fatty. Another view confirmed that I may interpret curvy differently to others and curvy actually means big boobs and bum with a small waist, hmm …

So after trawling through numerous blogs and forums I have arrived at the old conclusion that men’s preferences are as varied as women and their body shapes and I should have known better than to look for THE perfect shape to aspire to.
No matter what studies say I and my fellow BBW escorts seem to be doing just fine, so there is a large proportion of men out there who think us big girls are sex on legs.

Personally I feel it shows that we love to indulge in the pleasurable, sensual things in life whether it be food or sex.